Milo Grow at Gettysburg

A human wave of men emerged yelling and firing, against rank upon rank of Union troops, many of whom had breech-loading Spencer rifles that could sustain a rapid rate of fire.

An Imaginative Reconstruction of Milo Grow's experience at Gettysburg

By Gerald Grow, ©1989

None of Milo Grow's letters from this period survived, but family history records that he fought at Gettysburg, was wounded and captured. Here is a reconstruction of what might he might have gone through.


Late in the afternoon of July 2, 1863, General Semmes's brigade was ordered to advance, supporting Kershaw's men. Milo was with them, in the Georgia 51st Regiment.


Leaving their cover, they advanced into an open field to face Northern infantry firing from behind rocks and trees. After taking the field with heavy losses, the attackers fought their way to a heavily wooded ravine, where they had to drive out the Yankees rock by rock. Taking the rocks, they faced an open ravine with a stream at the bottom and rocks providing good cover on the other side. By the time they crossed it, that stream must have run red with blood. Then they faced the uphill battle against infantry firing down from the cover of trees and overhanging rocks, along a loop of road that jutted out onto the slope. Here, the fighting must have been bitter and protracted. Monument after monument marks where Northern forces fought.


Finally gaining the high ground of The Loop, Semme's brigade faced another nightmare. Beyond their cover of rocks and woods, a large open field rose to the north of them. Union troops held it. Union artillery looked down on them from the crest of the gentle slope of wheat.
In a moment commemorated in the diorama, they charged out of the woods into The Wheatfield in some of the bloodiest fighting of the battle. A human wave of men emerged yelling and firing, against rank upon rank of Union troops, many of whom had breech-loading Spencer rifles that could sustain a rapid rate of fire.


They took The Wheatfield.


But not for long. The North counterattacked. Back and forth, North and South crossed the Wheatfield, gaining and losing, surging and receding. Before the evening came, in that field alone the scythe of war had cut 6,000 men.

Northern troops pushed back to the far edge of the ravine, then lost that advantage again. By nightfall, Semmes's troops held the high ground near the Peach Orchard.

 
 Confederate prisoners at Gettysburg. (Library of Congress)

 


Among the dying was General Semmes, hit in the ravine and carried out--according to one story--on a stretcher made of a captured Union flag. Accounts of that night tell of piercing cries from the wounded and dying scattered through the woods, slopes, ravine, and wheatfield. Somewhere among the wounded lay Milo Grow.


The next day, General Lee gambled the war on the single hour of Pickett's Charge, a heartbreaking carnage of men pressing up a huge meadow in full view of the artillery at the top of little Cemetery Ridge. About a mile south of there, by the end of July 3, Semmes's brigade held the woods along the ravine.


About 1 p.m., the men of Semmes' brigade were ordered to withdraw to their original starting point on Seminary Ridge (now Confederate Avenue). They stood in the same field they had started from, but with what a difference. Of the 1200 in Semmes' Brigade, they suffered 430 casulties--one out of every three men.


Signs on some of the Northern markers indicate that, during their back-and-forth fighting, they took prisoners. Near midnight the next day--July 4, 1863, Independence Day, the same day the North took Vicksburg--Lee's troops withdrew in a pouring rain. The South did not have enough wagons to carry their wounded. 2,000 were left behind. Milo Grow was among them.


After Gettysburg, Milo was moved to Point Lookout, Maryland, the southernmost tip of land on the peninsula southeast of Washington, D.C. It was the North's only prisoner of war camp in which the men were kept in tents. There is now a state park there. Maps show that it overlooks the broad estuary of the Potomac River and the mouth of the great Chesapeake Bay. The sea air must have been clean, bracing, and, that winter of 1864, bitterly cold.

In this column are excerpts from Civil War songs Milo probably heard or sang.

 

Sittin' by the roadside on a summer's day,
Chattin' with my messmates, passing time away,
Lying in the shadow, underneath the trees,
Goodness, how delicious, eating goober peas!


Peas! Peas! Peas! Peas!
Eating goober peas!
Goodness, how delicious,
Eating goober peas!


 

 

 

 

As long as the Union was faithful to her trust,
Like friends and brethren, kind were we, and just;
But now, when Northern treachery attemps our rights to mar,
We hoist on high the Bonnie Blue Flag that bears a single star.


Hurrah! Hurrah!
For Southern rights, hurrah!
Hurrah for the Bonnie Blue Flag that bears a single star.


 

 

A hundred months have passed, Lorena,
Since last I held your hand in mine,
And felt that pulse beat fast, Lorena,
Though mine beat faster far than thine;
A hundred months -- 'twas flow'ry May,
When up the hilly slopes we climbed,
To watch the dying of the day,
And hear the distant church bells chimed.

It matters little now, Lorena,
The past -- is in eternal past,
Our heads will soon lie down, Lorena,
Life's tide is ebbing out so fast;
There is a future -- Oh, thank God --
Of life this is so small a part,
'Tis dust to dust beneath the sod,
But there, up there, 'tis heart to heart.

 

 

 

Hark honor's call, summoning all.
Summoning all of us unto the strife.
Sons of the South, awake! Strike till the brand shall break,
Strike for dear Honor's sake, Freedom and Life!
Strike for dear Honor's sake, Freedom and Life!

War to the hilt, theirs be the guilt,
Who fetter the free man to ransom the slave.
Up then, and undismay'd, sheathe not the battle blade,
Till the last foe is laid low in the grave!
Till the last foe is laid low in the grave!

God save the South, God save the South,
Her altars and firesides, God save the South!
For the great war is nigh, and we will win or die,
Chanting our battle cry, "Freedom or death!"
Chanting our battle cry, "Freedom or death!"
 

   
  Photograph of Confederate dead in The Wheatfield, where Milo Grow's regiment fought. (Library of Congress)
I felt again how lucky we are to be able to live quietly as a family, to have a life together. It is what he longed for most in the letters he wrote home from the war.

The Ravine Today (1989)

 

 

This is what it came to, in the end, for so many optimistic young men.

(Gettysburg: Library of Congress)

Today, the Ravine is a beautiful, quiet woodland. Occasional outcroppings of boulders stand out of the gentle slope like resting cattle. Some of these rocks show a clean, deep cleavage where they were sliced by centuries of ice. The stream at the bottom of the ravine runs over a bed of ragged little stones--I could recognize slate. The stones do not have the large, rounded composure of the ostrich-eggs found in some rivers. They are small, jagged, restless stones. They are the uneasy dreams of an insomniac stream.


The trees, in contrast, betray no memories. They spread a green benediction of maple, dogwood, hickory, poplar, and white oak. Several large trunks crisscross the bottom of the ravine, settling deeper each decade into the organic sleep of matter. While stepping onto one of the fallen trees, I scared up two white-tailed deer.


On Memorial Day, 1989, a few violets still bloomed in The Ravine. I think Milo would be glad to know that. In every sunny spot, brisk little weedy wildflowers sprang up and sang yellow and blue songs. I picked some and placed them on the metal sign that marked where Semmes' Brigade crossed the road. A carpet of shrubs covered the ground: creeper, poison ivy. The water whispered something just out of earshot. A jay called, a woodthrush spiralled up the overtones of his silver whistle. A woodpecker rolled his drum against the afternoon quiet, but no troops charged. The trees nodded, allowing a cool breeze through their cool and quiet shade.


In the ravine, Ariel and Stefan lined up stones to make a little dam. I watched. Milo, these are some of your many great-great grandchildren, come to sing a happy song. They--at least so far--have not been condemned to live in An Important Age.


Thinking over Milo's letters, I felt again how lucky we are to be able to live quietly as a family, to have a life together. It is what he longed for most in the letters he wrote home from the war. Writing this, I see my two boys happily sleeping in a clean, comfortable, air-conditioned hotel a few miles from the site of the Gettysburg slaughter. My wife is reading. The wide sky is clear all the way to the mountains, rising over rolling hills and peaceful pastures.


It is late afternoon, nearly 6:30, about the time Milo's troops left their position on Seminary Ridge and fought their way through the woods to the other side of the stream.

We're tenting tonight on the old camp ground,
Give us a song to cheer
Our weary hearts, a song of home,
And friend we love so dear.

Chorus:
Many are the hearts that are weary tonight,
Wishing for the war to cease;
Many are the hearts that are looking for the right
To see the dawn of peace.
Tenting tonight, tenting tonight,
Tenting on the old camp ground

We've been tenting tonight on the old camp ground,
Thinking of days gone by,
Of the loved ones at home that gave us the hand
And the tear that said "Goodbye!"
(Chorus)

We are tired of war on the old camp ground,
Many are dead and gone,
Of the brave and true who've left their homes,
Others been wounded long.
(Chorus)

We've been fighting today on the old camp ground,
Many are lying near;
Some are dead and some are dying,
Many are in tears.

Many are the heart who are weary tonight,
Wishing for the war to cease;
Many are the hearts that are looking for the right
To see the dawn of peace
Dying tonight, dying tonight,
Dying on the old camp ground.


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